It’s something I am curious about. Does the idea of pegging your man turn you on? When you are doing it, does it give you pleasure?
I think I can imagine a few scenarios on how it might work but if there are any women reading this, I’d really love your comments on this one. Do you enjoy pegging your guy? Without your comments, here are the scenarios I can imagine.
Scenario 1 – Just for Fun
The man wants to try it, the woman agrees to try it and enjoys it for the unique experience it is. Nothing more or less. There’s no physically sexual pleasure nor is there any pain in the experience for her so besides the thrill of doing something new and seeing her partner enjoy himself, there’s no other motivation to try it again. At the same time, neither is there any reason to avoid it.
Similar to a woman who doesn’t care too much about blowjobs, she will oblige him if he asks but won’t love or hate it.
Scenario 2 – Love the Idea
There’s something attractive about the idea of having a cock and fucking someone. As if having a cock is like wearing the cape of a super hero.
In this case, I can imagine two outcomes. The first is where the woman tries pegging her partner and realises “Hey, what about me?” The second is that the woman sees the pleasure her new super powers can give her partner and she relishes the chance to fuck him again.
Scenario 3 – Fuck You
The woman in this scenario is very into pegging her partner because she wants him to submit to her. She sees it as a way to assert dominance. Whether this domination is merely a way to spice up bedroom activities, is how sex works for this couple or is a deeper issue is not the point – the point is the attraction to pegging is in the man submitting to the woman and the woman penetrating him as an act of dominance.
(For some, I imagine the psychology of this to be an extreme turn on.)
Scenario 4 – Love the Kink
Some of us are just kinky deviants and the woman in this scenario loves pegging or the idea of pegging because it’s not the norm – because something going up his ass is not what we are taught to believe is what sex is about.
Also: She Doesn’t Want to Peg
I can also see that some women might really be against pegging. Similar to men being against pegging because they are worried it would make them (seem) gay, some women might be very turned off by the idea of seeing their partner in the “position of a woman” or being a “sissy” as it conflicts too strongly with the image of a man they have been brought up with.
Almost humorously, I can imagine some women might be worried he would like it too much.
Also like some men have mental trouble (just as I did) with physically getting into the receiving position – meaning exposing your asshole for penetration – some women might have trouble conceptualizing being in the role of penetrator.
So those are the theories I have. My wife was more of a scenario 1 and 2 situation – initially she was open to the idea but she wasn’t pushing me to let her peg me. If I remember correctly, I was the one who brought it up. Then, wearing the strap-on was fun and she seemed to enjoy swinging her “cock” around. Then, fucking me was exciting but the excitement ran out pretty quickly. Though pegging is something we do on occasion, it’s something done for me, not because she gets any (or much) excitement or pleasure from the act, other than seeing me enjoy it.
Still, I’d love to hear from any readers – what is your (or the pegger in your life/butt) perception of pegging. Do you get turned on by the idea or the act? Do you desire to fuck your partner with a strap on dildo? Do you hate the idea?