He wants to fuck your ass? Peg him! (He’ll understand now.)

You want to do what?
You want to do what?

Dear ladies.

I know there are a few guys out there who have no interest in anal sex, either giving or taking but I think most guys at least want to try it. And if they’ve tried it, they probably want to do it again – that is, they want to fuck you. Their cock up, your ass. I certainly enjoy fucking my wife’s ass.

I bet most of them have never even considered the idea of your (strapped on) cock up their ass. Well, I suggest you plant the idea in their minds.

Next time you get a request for anal sex, that is unless you’re in the mood for it right then and there, suggest that instead of him fucking you, you fuck him. Ask him if he’d let you do him. Ask him nicely, of course.

If the idea of fucking your partner doesn’t turn you on then obviously, find another reply to his request but if the idea of turning the tables – if the idea of him bent over the bed or legs pushed back, groaning as you push your hips forward and watch the dildo that is firmly strapped to your pelvis part his cheeks and slide up his ass; if the idea of that does do something for you, then put it out there.

pegging legs back

As a guy who enjoys pegging, and as one who has enjoyed and enjoys solo anal play, I can tell you that many times when I was suggesting we indulge in some anal sex (my cock up her ass), I would have been very open to the idea of her playing with me, whether by hand or with a toy. The reason is that when I start thinking about anal sex, I’m very horny, and that’s when anal play starts to sound good to me.

As a guy who enjoys pegging, I’ll also admit how hard it is to get to the point of her actually strapping a dildo on and putting it in me. But once you get there, it’s awesome. Heck, the whole idea of getting pegged inspired me to start this blog and my first time, well, read about it! But getting there can be hard.

The reason you should suggest turning the tables and fucking him is that when it comes time to feel him up in your butt, he’s going to have a real idea of what it feels like for you. He’s going to be much more patient. He’s going to understand what slow really means. He’s going to know that “use lots of lube” mean USE LOTS OF LUBE. (Just don’t use this one!)

Also, suggest it because you might enjoy it. He might enjoy it. And pegging may bring you closer as a couple – sharing intimacies can do that.

4 thoughts on “He wants to fuck your ass? Peg him! (He’ll understand now.)”

  1. Yup I tried that lube in the mid nineties. It burned then too. All I use now is silicone lube. Gun oil to be exact, always use a condum on my toys as well.

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